I totally understand this “I wear makeup/shave my legs/dress in figure flattering clothing because it makes me feel good and confident and sexy and it’s not to impress you silly boy”, but like…… It’s ok to want to look good for someone other than yourself. It’s ok to wear red because he likes that color on you. It’s totally ok to wear the dress that shows off what your mama gave you because you know he can’t resist your curves. Like it’s OK to want to be sexy for someone other than yourself. There are days when I’m like “I’m not trying to look good for you, I’m trying to look good for me.” butttttt man I’d be lying if I said there weren’t days that I didn’t think “damn, he’s going to be blown away by how bangin’ my ass looks in these jeans”